I’m sure many of you have seen the title of this post on signs at protests. I keep reflecting back on it as I read editorials and comments from people who say we should calm down, be nice and try to change hearts in the court of public opinion. The Mercury-News says, “The gay marriage movement is at a crossroads. It can become more combative, or it can build on the support of the near-majority who came close to defeating Proposition 8. Building support clearly is the better path.”







